Well to start things off on a good note, things are beginning to improve. At least in my personal life. Job still sucks but thats another story. I've met someone. My best friend and roommate introduced me to her friend Kyle at a party this last weekend. I've met him before but this was the first time that I actually talked to him or anything. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and a coulpe weeks ago, Danielle (my roommate) said that he was asking about me. He makes me laugh...all the time. Which is great cuz to me that is the most important thing. He's not my typical type ( I tend to like the "bad boys") but I've started to realize that my type really isn't working out in my favor so maybe it's time to try something new. There is only one problem. Of course there has to be at least one, nothing ever comes without strings attatched for me. Problem is, he's VERY VERY busy. He works two full time job and goes to school full time. I know it's a good thing, that he's so driven and has a plan for his life but it just kind of sucks that if things were to go the way I want them to, I still wouldn't be able to see him much. He also lives a little ways away. I mean it's not that far, like 40 min, but when he's so busy and even though I don't have near as much going as he does, I'm still busy as well. I don't know, I'm just REALLY trying to be patient and see how things go. I dwell on things way too much and am trying so hard not to stress about this too much and end up ruining a possibly good thing. Anyone who has any advice about how I can be more patient and not stress on this so much, I'm always open for suggestions.
乐肥的'终身大事'
'乐肥'我家小猫的中文名，他的洋名是'Lufy' 。取自我家养过的两只猫Puff 和Lefy.
乐肥小时候，我们以为他是母猫，所以起名 '小妹'，但他以每月一斤的不循常速度，7个月内便摇身长成了一个身光颈亮的10 斤大公猫。走起路来，抬头摇尾，潇洒得不行。躺在地上大腿一伸，别提多性感了。
这个月开始， 乐肥晚上时不时地'叫春'，弄得我们全家心神不宁，敦敦也不得不开始操心乐肥的'终身大事'。
我们的谈话首次触及伦理（Ethics）的范畴，问题是乐肥有没有权'自由恋爱'，自然地养育自己的后代。
乐肥'母猫'身份时，敦敦打算允许她出门'交友'，繁殖后代，并会将其生下的小猫仔养大后一一送到好人家。没想到乐肥如今变了'男儿身'，敦敦思虑再三，觉得如果允许乐肥出门不负责任的'风流'， 它即不会照顾他的'女友'，也无法把后代带回家养育，履行父职，所以打算过些日子就送乐肥去'净身'，随不太'猫道主义'但能免得乐肥身心不衡，活得如此之累。
说真的，人类是自私的。我们养动物，给它吃喝，享受它的调皮可爱，但出于种种考虑我们并没有给动物真正的自由。这就应了那句话：世界上没有无缘无故的爱。
Love You because your live is valued to someone.
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